Ja nii ongi.
Väga huvitav, et nii raske on inimesi õpetama seda ühtsustunnet tajuma, kuigi neid on ju nii palju, kes on seda kogenud ja kogevad ning ka räägivad sellest.
Tundub, et see on nagu lihtsalt õnne asi, kas see kogemus tekib, või jäädki selle kohta raamatutest lugema.
Rahuliku, vaikse meelega tehtud otsused on parimad otsused.
Meile võiks kuuluda õigus võtta endale nii palju aega, kui vajame.
Pausid pole tegevusetus - need on vajalikud heade valikute tegemiseks ja õigete sõnade ütlemiseks.
"Deep Listening is the kind of listening that can help relieve the suffering of another person. You can call it compassionate listening. You listen with only one purpose: to help him or her to empty his heart. Even if he says things that are full of wrong perceptions, full of bitterness, you are still capable of continuing to listen with compassion.
Because you know that listening like that, you give that person a chance to suffer less. If you want to help him to correct his perception, you wait for another time. For now, you don't interrupt. You don't argue. If you do, he loses his chance. You just listen with compassion and help him to suffer less. One hour like that can bring transformation and healing."
- Thich Nhat Hanh (Partially extracted from the Mar-2010 issue of "O, The Oprah Magazine")
“You have to learn how to help a wounded child while still practicing mindful breathing. You should not allow yourself to get lost in action. Action should be meditation at the same time.”